September 11, 2015
Sleeping With Other People
Roger Walker-Dack READ TIME: 2 MIN.
Jake first meets Lainey when she is raising hell trying to break a door down in the hallway of his college dorm. She's trying to get to Matthew, whom she has a big crush on, but before she can get her hands on him, she is about to be thrown out by College Security.
That's when Jake jumps in to rescue her by claiming that Lainey is a friend of his, and that he'll take care of her. He does, in a way, as back in his room, and as the two of them start to bond they discover that they do actually both have something in common. They are both virgins, a situation that they rectify on the spot.
Fast forward 12 years, and Jake has just manipulated his latest girlfriend into dumping him, as he just can never ever be monogamous as she wants. On the other side of town, Lainey is confessing to her boyfriend that she has been regularly sleeping with someone else. It leads to an accidental reunion when they both end up at a sex addicts meeting. It's the first time the pair have met since Lainey walked out after their one night together, and this time they enter a pact to remain friends, but purely platonic ones.
Turns out that the man that Lainey has been having an affair with is the same one that she had the crush on back in college, and, as torturous as it is for her, she just cannot bring herself to end it. Jake, on the other hand, has issues with his infidelity, which he now shares with Lainey as the two become besties. The pair become so very close and share everything including all the trials and tribulations of their latest dates, but it never occurs to either them to get romantic with each other. They have to go through hell and back, as hilarious as it is, until they can possibly reach the point we all know that they were always going to end up at.
Writer/director Leslye Headland ("Bacherlorette") briskly-paced comedy, set amongst Manhattan's fast set, attempts to tackle the perennial question: "Can a single man and a single woman just be friends?" However, although she doesn't further the argument one way or another, she does get as many laughs that she can out of it in this very cute and raunchy rom-com. Never one to shirk from getting amusement from their misery, there are some real gems of stand-out funny scenes, such as Jake breaking up with his girlfriend (who is determined to break all his bones at the same time), and Lainey similarly trying to break up with her boyfriend, as he just insists on stealing the scene from her.
Pitch perfect casting led by Jason Sudeikis and Alision Brie as two would be/could be lovers, but also with some great supporting performances too from Amanda Peet, Adam Scott and Natasha Lyonne.
"Sleeping With Other People" is both much more good natured and definitely more sophisticated than Headland's smash hit "Bachelorette," and all more better because of it.
Roger Walker-Dack, a passionate cinephile, is a freelance writer, critic and broadcaster and the author/editor of three blogs. He divides his time between Miami Beach and Provincetown.